Today, is the the day where I am to meet Karen's teacher to receive her report book. Her form teacher, Mrs Angela Sim, rang me yesterday - and only yesterday I knew.
I told Ken about it, and ask if I should go along with them; Ken now is the guardian of Karen. He kept silence, oh well, seems to me he did not want me to go. He did told me that our X
iao Gugu, MeeMee, is meeting up with him.
They returned at 4 pm, from the remarks of Ken, its seems the school counciler, Mrs Wong, was along with them as well.
Aunt Meemee, wants Karen to stay at her house at Ang Mo Kio for the time being. Not an issue. She wants Karen to travel to her house on her own tomorrow, HUGE issue. But I shall not assume things here and hope for the best. There is always hope, right? Not?Anyway, back to Karen issue. Mrs Wong told Ken, as Ken told me, of a case where a father was jailed for checking her daughter's virginity personally; and warned me to not to do so.
LOL, I already told Ken weeks ago that I am sending Karen to the Police to lodge a report, for suspecting having of sexual intercourse for girls under 16 - irregardless of willing or unwilling party, it is illegal to have sex with girls under 16 in Sinagpore. NO WAY I will conduct the check myself, I knew it is illegal. Anyway, as usual he cannot provide me the details, so I emailed the counciler for details. I like to study and get to know details.
Ken did tell me that he told the form teacher and the school counciler that from then on, they should contact him and
Xiao Gugu, not me. For Karen is now under their system, not mine. Fear gripped me, for I can only foresee that Karen is heading deeper into the darkness with her newfound "freedom" at a faster pace.
They are unwilling to spend more time to study and understand the pattern of Karen's behaviour and activities, and yet refuse to listen to my observations - I been observing Karen secretly as a PI since she is secondary one, advicing her on related topics for each events she encountered. Karen is too soon to allow "freedom" for she has no restrain; things she did has had no concern for rights or wrongs, she did them as long as she is pleased with it. She has too little tolerance.
Ken is leaving for Rendang tonight. Ironically, soon after he left, Karen claimed that Ken had allowed her to go out, and asked May (our maid) to let her out. I stopped May and asked May to call Ken directly. Its another of her millionth lies. Brillant.
Ken did granted Karen the permission in the end, on the "fact" that Karen only went down to buy some candies. I tracked her. I saw she is around with another girl and 2 guys, all much older than her. Job done, I called up Ken and he told me to ask Karen to call her when she returned.
This small little event showed alot. Karen is not in any way "bonded" towards Ken - to be fair, that do need sometime, but Ken does not realise that her bond with her "friends" is much much stronger.
Ken is now Karen new sucker. Its not as Karen claimed that its my restriction on home facilities that made her unwilling to return home. Ken reinstated all my previous restrictions and gave her more "breathing space", Karen still lied to him, used his name (like the way she used my name and her form teacher, Mrs Sim, name for her "excursion" in the past) and returned home MUCH much later when she was under mine.
Brillant. Isn't it?
Whatever;
for words are always more than true actions and results.
And Oh, Karen's grades average dropped to a whopping 10% to 50.7% from 60+%, using Ken's devised system of study. Not a surprise to me anyway.