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Mum, sad day today indeed. While I am revising my RAID5 at 2345, Ken came over and started questioning about my claims and subclaims etc. Sounds like a total relevancy in terms of Fightning Over Property Issues? Yes you are right Mum...

He started to hint to me to get a proper job rather than temp job basis. In short, he is trying to say,
"Dun claim from father anymore, because what is his is mine now!"

Anyway, why doesnt he question the community why they agree with the signoff with my claims? If I am in the wrong, they do have the right to refuse. Rather than signing it then question about it later. They can just call me direct BUT not once, not even on call on it. They dont even call me for the meetings after 2003 Mr.Lim's infamous "Its is your father's property, not yours. Why are you so concerned?" in the meeting at Koh Guan Chua Workshop with ALL the family members and the community members, in October 2003. Oh well, that seems to be the last formal meeting other than the informal one in our Tampines House in 2004 Mum.

Mum, Ken told me that he wanted to took over Father's workshop and resume dominance and control over the workshop and family as well. And he will claim sole leadership and abolish the community. Well, the CURRENT community should LONG be abolished, but this only mean the need for new one, NOT without one.

Haha, if there is no community, then when Master Soh suggested to me to taking over Father's Workshop, I would had long agreed, seize total cash, property and control, or better yet, claiming massive entertaining fees and drawing HUGE salaries...

I refuse, simply because I had promised you, Mum, to not to touch that workshop... I know all these tricks, cause Master Soh had told me what can happened if I let one of my uncles/aunites to assume sole management over the workshop.

It happened! Praised Master Soh! At the end of the day, dated back to 2002, where there is a period Dad is under one of his brother's house, there is EVERY single claim made to Father from dinners over $100 to medical claims of Uncle William. And DAMN the community, they allow them to make the claims... even for the Hougang ... they just give them the claims they had filed... and yet they had terminated father's insurance and such... fantastic isnt it? All the while, they state that this is to save the lawyer's money yet maintaining that workshop to drain all the money... GREAT! They are just FABULOUS! Mum!

~ Mum I really felt bad now... I had yet to visit Master Soh's grave... Aunt SuiMuay retorted she dun know when I asked her... WTH (she failed to look after JyeShin properly and let her rot and now THIS!)! Mum. We really own him alot, even when I manage to get information on his mum... she suffered a stroke attack and landed in Tan Tock Seng Hospital before I had a chance to visit her and thank her for her wonderful son...

Mum, for what you had feared had actually happened now. Ken is the one who is doing all the Control and Manipulation, like what you had predicted. And he is thinking that he is doing the right things by assuming what Dad had done in his earlier years; snatching control of the workshop after Grandfather died with his siblings.

Haiz, I think Ken is blinded by the money in father's workshop (over $200k) and bank account; I only know that Ken is kinda cash-strapped now, and he is seeing a girl with 4 wheels while he only has 2. I am suspecting that the catalyst for this event, is the encouragement of his new girlfriend.

From Ken's characteristics, he would surely had told her about the workshop. And for sure he had taken her advice... Too obvious...

Mum, I am kinda troubled. For Ken had breached the very basic of trust between family members, he is too concerned about himself and had not spared a thought for the others. Once again, his "self-centered"-ness had revealed... and this time, he did not know or maybe ALREADY did know he is trying to vie over a life man's property...

Mum, I am looking at the worst scenario, Ken is only using that as front and he is attempting to seize father's cash for own pocket.

Some serious loopholes here, if the community hands over with the workshop making minimium profit that is less than what Ken had right now, this means the community is in the wrong.

IF Ken insisted in taking over the workshop while it is still not profittable for at least 1 Financial Year then Ken is up to something.

If KEn had access to father's total trustee and property, then Father is in trouble and the Law will protect father by default... unless it is flawed...

Mum, for ONE thing I am VERY SURE, Ken had never been able to keep things going for extended period of time; in short he is not consistent. From his beautiful N level results and ugly O level result, to his ITC education despite the good results he skipped classes, from his time serving in SAF and not trying to seek a diploma, to his insistence of taking after Karen - where he did not really bother about her future at all... no assignments, no tutions, no nothing... he throws her money and give her her wants, nothing more... and the end result? Straight Fs for all her tests, and continue to do nothing about it for several weeks then now he focused on trying to best father's property for himself...

Mum I think I had reached a conclusion, thanks for allowing me to throw my heart out... this had lead me to analyse the entire situation once again... and the position he and I are in... I am sorry Mum, looks like I have to deal with Ken and I pray for your blessing on my endeavour...

Anyway Mum, it is kinda ironic... just today I had reject the Project's Manager offer to renew my contract with SCS and this thing happens... anyway one thing good is that the funds I had bought rebounce thanks to the commodities raising... but I had also suffered a massive "opportunity loss" if I had place them in the money market when they are at their peak... but still I had to count my lucky stars that at least my loss is minimisise, HAHA :P

Today is a day with event of A good lesson though... nobility does not pay... cause there are always people who are not concern with principles and moral values... I sincerely hoped that Mum you will help me to continue to upkeep my principle and moral value...