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Wow Mum... its already Sunday...

Yesterday, Xiaoyi discuss with me how the whole thing goes, and today is the meeting with the other aunties and uncle on how to deal with Ahma after her extended hospital stay due next week...

It was initially discussed to be at 6pm... but with my prior knowledge dealing with family meetings (where it is mostly about "shouldering" of responsibilites without any benefits) thanks to Dad's incident, everyone will be intentionally late... so they can avoid as much "dirty linings" as possible and not get caught in it... and usually they are more interested in expressing self-interest and there are actually no clear objectives that everyone looks forward to...

So as things go, I reach Xiaoyi's house at 5+pm, with XiaoyiZang in. Things was difficult when time up at 6pm, as apparantly, no one are present at Sanyi house (last minute change from Erjiu to Sanyi) so it drags on to almost 7pm that XiaoyiZang brings LeiDe and LeiWen for dinner, leaving Xiaoyi and I alone to iron things out:

~ The primary things is on the gold stuff... as Xiaoyi mentioned... the rest are hyping on the current high gold price and are more interested in selling the gold and keeping them...

~ And also to avoid time wastage.. as previous meeting was... Erjiu was not present... and everyone simply throw forwards their problems, using them as a wall to evade the problem...

Anyway long story short Mum,

Around 7+pm, Erjiu called that he had reached... upon reaching Sanyi house, only Zhongkai and Erjiu are in the living room, YingYing in her room and maybe HuiHui...

We merely sit around watch TV and chitchat till almost 8 then Eryi came, followed by Sanyi some 15 minutes later, returning from their gocery shopping...

Then the meeting start abruptly in the mid of conversation with Eryi and Sanyi asking Zhongkai to read out Sanyi's work contract...

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Then after Zhongkai saying he has absolutely no idea what is happening, the topic rotates to Ahma's daily problem in the hospital... lots of talk and such and this for almost 40 minutes... all about Ahma's waste discharge issue... and the answer to all this is a simple "update the doctor" or "lodge a complain"... something really insignificant as Ahma will be staying for at most 7 days more...

Which lead to the next real issue...

The lodgings of Ahma after her discharge, to start with this new and totally uncomfortable session, I ask for a paper and pencil from Junwei, and proceed to tell them that "being a family, this is NOW the time to put forth your readily contributions and difficulties".

I started with Eryi using her wonderfully notorious husband EryiZang as the "icebreaker" with what her no-no are, then swiftly move to her readily contributions, where she happily chip in monthly $200 "max" (she mentioned "min" but I alter it otherwise into her favour). Then I ask for her free time, she mentioned the need for time to be with her daughter with Saturday, and Sunday morning, thus her free time will be Sunday afternoon.

*Sorry Mum, its already 0130 in the dawn, time to sleep, I shall update you on the meeting details tomorrow =D Nities Mum

Then is Erjiu

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